Chocolate and oysters? Puhlease. Those are yesterday’s aphrodisiacs. These days, people are touting how cannabis and sex can boost your carnal pleasure.
But how? Is there any proof? Or is that just a bunch of stoners telling everyone how good it is? There are certainly a lot of products out there to enhance libido and pleasure.
But is it all hype?
Is it really true that marijuana can help your sex drive?
Let’s find out…
The Research on Cannabis and Sex
Since cannabis has been illegal forever, it’s been historically complicated to do much research. But obviously, a lot is changing nowadays, and more and more studies are beginning to shed light on how it affects humans—mind and body.
However, even though more research is being done, the effects of marijuana on sex are still pretty untapped. Some studies have shown that cannabis does enhance sexual pleasure. Others have shown it can reduce sperm count and even contribute to erectile dysfunction.
Plus, what good sex means is different for everyone. For some, having any sex makes it good sex. For others, it’s when both partners have orgasms simultaneously. So, any research done has been a little less than scientific. And most studies rely solely on the reporting of the participants.
Now that we’ve gotten that out of the way, let’s dive into how cannabis affects our minds and bodies.
How Does Cannabis Actually Affect Sex?
Cannabinoids are naturally occurring compounds found in cannabis.
Our bodies make similar molecules called endocannabinoids. There are a lot of receptors for those molecules in the areas of our brain that regulate physiology, mood, pain, memory, stress and sexual function. Basically, everyday life stuff.
When we use marijuana, dopamine is released, which influences the areas of the brain that increases sexual pleasure.
Additionally, cannabis is a vasodilator, which means it increases blood flow, a vital part of sexual arousal. And it affects the cannabinoid receptors involved with pain and anxiety.
It’s easy to see why studies have shown that more frequent cannabis use heightens arousal, creates stronger orgasms and contributes to overall greater sexual satisfaction. But is it because using marijuana lowers stress, pain, and anxiety, which leads to better sex? Or is there an actual physical change in our bodies and minds that leads to better sex?
Currently, we really don’t know.
So, you’ll just have to create your own private study to find out.
Sex-related Cannabis Products
There are quite a few intimacy products that have some form of cannabis in them.
And even more products that can be used to enhance your sexual pleasure, even if they aren’t explicitly created for sex.
Let’s talk about a few options…
One thing about edibles is that they are a little unpredictable. Not how they affect you, but when.
Because they go through your digestive system and depend on how much you’ve eaten, it’s unlikely you and your partner will peak simultaneously. So, one of you will be raring to go, and the other may still be waiting to feel something.
Try an edible when flying solo and see how it goes.
Cannabis Lube (TCH or CBD or both)
Since cannabis is a vasodilator, these lubes promise increased arousal and stronger orgasms.
Cannabis Melts or Suppositories
Melts are not just great as lubricants.
If there is any pain or discomfort during or after intercourse, the suppository can help mitigate it. Additionally, they enhance sexual pleasure and increase relaxation.
Cannabis Massage Oil
Everyone loves a good rubdown, especially when the finale is great sex with your partner. Cannabis oil is an excellent way to get your body feeling good and relaxed without the high.
CBD Arousal Oil
There are oils specifically designed for women to be used in and around the vaginal area. When applied, it enhances sensation, giving you bigger and better orgasms.
One thing to keep in mind is that not all lubes and melts play well with latex. So, if you are using condoms, read the fine print on your product. You might have to find latex-free condoms.
Quim Smooth Operator Intimate Serum is CBD-infused latex-safe serum designed to increase blood flow, promote pelvic relaxation and decrease inflammation and pain. Their Happy Clam Everyday Oil is also CBD-infused and designed to keep your va-jayjay happy, healthy and moisturized.
Pot Smoking and Sex
Some people like to get high because it lowers their inhibitions and makes them chill out. Relaxing increases your chances for better sex any way you look at it, so if you prefer to go the old school route, then you do you.
However, not all weed is the same. You’ll need to be specific when choosing your strain. And terpenes can come into play when selecting the perfect marijuana for your sex life.
How to Choose the Best Marijuana for Your Sexual Pleasure?
Every strain has unique qualities making some better than others for sex. Then throw terpenes in the mix, and you’re in for some magic.
Looking for a mellow buzz? Try LA Confidential, a calming strain with the terpene linalool.
Are you prone to anxiety?
Bubba Kush, an indica strain, and Kobe OG, a hybrid, may keep it at bay.
Concerned about pain during or after sex?
Try a strain like Harlequin, which has myrcene to ease pain.
Can marijuana make sex more creative?
It sure can. Let your inner freak flag fly by having sex on marijuana. Some strains can help you break out of your comfort zone.
Give Granddaddy Purple and Blue Dream a whirl.
There is no right or wrong strain or terpene when it comes to cannabis and sex. It depends on how your body reacts to each one and what kind of roll in the hay you are looking for. It’s about trial and error. So, the above strains are just suggestions. Do your research and talk to your local budtender to figure out what’s best for you.
How Much Weed Should You Consume Before Sex?
Whether you are vaping, rubbing down, or lubing up, how much you use depends on you and the type of product you are working with.
If you’re no stranger to using cannabis regularly, then have at it.
Otherwise, you should start slowly and use the least amount suggested for the first time. Obviously, using a topical oil is very different than vaping, so keep that in mind.
Just be sure you purchase your products from a reputable source and have fun.
The Bottom Line About Cannabis and Sex
Real talk—we don’t have scientific proof there is any correlation between cannabis and sex. But who cares?
If you’ve got a chance to amp up your time between the sheets and have mind-blowing orgasms, you’ve gotta give it a whirl, right?
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